Dreaming of Gloria Gaynor: Sammy Davis Jr.'s "I've Gotta Be Me" vs. Frank Sinatra's "My Way"

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I heard "I've Gotta Be Me" in the car today, along with the story of how Sinatra and Martin urged Davis to record something contemporary, so he could get onto the pop charts. I guess Sinatra approved of the result--he released "My Way" a few months later. (I initially thought both came out in '68, but "My Way" is '69.)

What do they have to do with Gloria Gaynor? Nothing--but I wonder if they're the template for a certain kind of pop song, the survivor song, that Greil Marcus would make fun of down the road. (Not Gaynor specifically, whose survivor song is probably the best of them.) There's a strong element of old-guy self-pity attached to both the Davis and Sinatra songs. The only time I ever really liked "My Way" was when Don and Peggy danced to it late in Mad Men's run--much prefer "I've Gotta Be Me."

Poll Results

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"I've Gotta Be Me," Sammy Davis Jr. (1968) 3
"My Way," Frank Sinatra (1969) 1


clemenza, Monday, 10 February 2025 19:45 (one week ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qkiSKpssHc

clemenza, Monday, 10 February 2025 19:48 (one week ago) link

(The Mad Men scene--only watchable on YouTube.)

clemenza, Monday, 10 February 2025 19:48 (one week ago) link

I have somewhere a "Pop Commentary" column from a late '69 Life magazine denouncing the trend of MOR Pop singers popularizing what they called the "Self-Love Song"--as in odes to the singer's own greatness, not onanism--with these two cited as main offenders alongside the Dean Martin version of "I Take A Lot Of Pride In Who I Am" (which might be my favorite of the three).

Okay, heteros are cutting edge this year, too. (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 10 February 2025 22:06 (one week ago) link

I meant to check if Martin had a comparable song--don't know that one.

clemenza, Monday, 10 February 2025 22:47 (one week ago) link

It's a Merle Haggard cover, from when Dino was mostly covering Country songs.

Here he is duetting it with Ann-Margret

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdvT2tAGRrk

Okay, heteros are cutting edge this year, too. (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 10 February 2025 23:10 (one week ago) link

I'll always associate "I've Gotta Be Me" with the Far Side cartoon of the penguin belting it out

Josefa, Tuesday, 11 February 2025 13:39 (one week ago) link

Also off the car radio yesterday, I heard the new-wave young-guy version of self-pity circa 1978: "But you'll be sorry when I'm dead/And all this guilt will be on your head."

clemenza, Tuesday, 11 February 2025 14:29 (one week ago) link

I think there's a good book waiting to be written by the right person--maybe it already has been--about all the '50s sub-Sinatras hanging on by their fingernails through the latter half of the '60s. They're all over the lower reaches of the weekly Billboard Top 100 charts (my recollection from making birthday-related CDs for friends): Jack Jones, Vic Damone, Andy Williams, etc. You could include Sinatra himself or omit him, as his 1960s have obviously been chronicled already.

clemenza, Tuesday, 11 February 2025 16:47 (one week ago) link

Yeah I’ve been watching old episodes of Hollywood Palace (1964-1970) on YouTube and that type of singer pops up all the time. You could still have a big hit in that style in ‘67 but by ‘73 it was hard to even place an album in the Top 200.

Josefa, Tuesday, 11 February 2025 17:44 (one week ago) link

Engelbert Humperdinck was huge from '67-69; he almost functioned as the "new" continuation of this tradition.

clemenza, Tuesday, 11 February 2025 18:44 (one week ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Sunday, 16 February 2025 00:01 (five days ago) link

I love Frank

I respect Sammy

I don’t like either of these songs

Josefa, Sunday, 16 February 2025 01:29 (five days ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

System, Monday, 17 February 2025 00:01 (four days ago) link


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